About “The True Love Coach”
Every night as I lay in the arms of my True Love, I can’t help but give thanks. My life with my True Love is phenomenal, it’s exciting, it’s satisfying, and, yes, it is extraordinary.
Everyday, my true love and I, we talk, we dream, we plan, we just go to the movies. We even have a standing Friday night movie date. We share our success and our disappointments. We share the dishes, going to the store, taking out the garbage, and walking the dog.
My true love isn’t perfect (OK, neither am I), yet we still love each other beyond my wildest dreams. We just love being together doing nothing, doing everything. Today, I can honestly say that I found my pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. And, I wouldn’t trade my relationship for all the lottery winnings in the world.
But I wasn’t always this happy. Let me tell you about when I was single and in my mid-forties. I owned two thriving businesses, had a house overlooking Puget Sound, and an active social life. So, what’s the problem? I wanted more out of life. I wanted that special person to come home to, that special person to be my best friend, that special person that I could shower my affection on and who would shower their affection on me. I wanted a life partner…emphasis on life partner.
I just couldn’t figure it out. I considered myself a nice person (others did too). I was not a size 5 beauty queen, but I was attractive and well dressed – I presented well. So, what was the problem? I saw others in relationships and wondered, “What do they have that I don’t, I’m nicer than them.” In this part of my life, I was frustrated, discouraged, confused, and sometimes even a little embarrassed.
I struggled (and re-struggled) with the questions “Why not me? What’s wrong with me?” The worst part was that I just didn’t understand; I didn’t know what to do.
So, I tried different things like going to bars, parties, and social outings. I even went back to Church after 25 years. I will admit I was never brave enough to sign up for an internet dating service.
At age 46, I just couldn’t live in the “What’s wrong with me place” any longer, so I resolved to know that I was enough just as I was – single. It worked pretty well, but not totally.
Three years later, I discovered why I wasn’t in a lasting, loving relationship. Three months after my life-changing discovery, I found my True Love and fulfillment in that part of my life. And I am so excited to share my discovery with you so you can get “True Love” too.