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Find True Love: Giving Thanks Countdown - 8 Days and Counting
By Coach Colleen | November 20, 2008
Hello again,
I’m sitting at the Easy Street Café. What a way to start my day – on Easy Street.
And, for that I am grateful. I sit in a booth, with music playing, being served by breakfast and an endless cut of very good coffee. I am really thankful that they completely and totally handle the dirty dishes.
Gratitude is very flattering. Thinking about what you are grateful for, even when times are a little low, helps you focus on what you have … what is going right … what is working.
Okay, you say that’s good and all but my life is hard right now. I will not argue on that point. All I will say is that no matter what your situation, giving thanks impels you into a positive energy space.
Answer me this: When you walk into a room, who is more appealing the person who is radiating a positive energy or the person who is radiating a negative energy.
Most of the time all of us will say ‘the person who is radiating positive energy.’
Part of finding true love is being a person who your true love wants to approach.
So try this the next time you are at a party and don’t know what to do, feel uncomfortable talking to strangers or just don’t know what to say.
Ask yourself “What am I grateful for about the way I look right now?”
Then, ask the next person you talk to this question
“Normally I ask people what they do for a living, but instead I would like to ask you to tell me one thing you are grateful for about this party?”
See what happens? Let me know.
I do want you to be aware that many people are most comfortable talking about what’s not right rather than seeing what’s good in the moment and being grateful.
Here is where you can make a positive contribution to our world – choose not to participate in promoting what’s wrong. All you have to do is re-ask your question.
‘And, what is one thing you are grateful for about this party?’
Sometimes people are so used to the negative that they cannot find anything positive. I like to help them out by leading with an example something like this…
I’m grateful that there are salty munchies, how about you?
Or, if you are trying to avoid salty munchies, you might say…
I’m so grateful that there is an alternative to potato chips, how about you?
This way you give them something to focus on – munchies. Or the clean floor, or the good music, the big TV, the fact that your friends have great friends, or friends that you don’t know so you can get to know new people.
I project that you will infect that party with an uplifting energy.
Coach Colleen
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