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Find True Love in the Blink of an Eye
By Coach Colleen | January 14, 2009
Hi,
Can you go from start to finish in the blink of an eye? That’s called love at first sight.
The question is “Is there even such thing as love at first site?”
What do you think?
My take is there is attraction at first site. Aren’t hormones great!
True love can grow out of this hormonal attraction if you water and nuture it’s growth. And, if the soil is right.
Last year I added some new top soil to my garden. I was in love with the rich dark look of the new soil. As I mixed it in I envisioned the huge tomatoes and cucumbers that I would be harvesting in just a few months. I could almost taste my fresh Greek salad.
My cucumber plants molded and only produced about 5 cucumbers from 6 plants. The tomatoes grew a lot of leaves, but the fruit was slow in coming and I had to throw out a lot of green tomatoes.
The raw material - the soil - was not the right mix to begin with. I didn’t look beyond label to see if it was what my existing garden soil needed. Clearly, in hindsight, it was not. I went with my infatuation and need to be done and move on to planting and harvesting. My mental harvest was a great future trip.
Sometimes, we future trip about what our life together will be like - even after the first date. Stop. It doesn’t help. It actually interfers with you getting to know the real person rather than your imagination.
Be in the moment. Believe me, I know it can be hard at times. This is mostly because we have trained ourselves to always be looking ahead and planning and forecasting. Our relationships are not the weather.
If you loook at the stastics on how ‘right’ the weather forecasters are, it’s not that great. Maybe not even as good as our 50% diviorce rate.
Live this moment.
Coach Colleen
Find True Love in 4 1/2 Minutes per day method. It really works.
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