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Is Believing You Can Enough to Find True Love?
By Coach Colleen | January 21, 2009
Hi there,
Finding true love begins with believing that you CAN find true love. Right?
But is believing enough? It’s kind of like positive thinking? Yes, think positive, but is that enough?
The movie ‘The Secret’ talks about accepting, knowing and believing in what you want will bring it to you. Is that enough?
Many people ‘believe’ and do not experience the result they believed in. What’s up here?
We think we believe. We want to believe. But, we don’t really believe 100%.
What’s the answer to this dilemma?
Have you ever heard this saying? ‘Fake it till you make it.’
This is a great attitude for the young, but as we grow older some of us start to feel like imposters when we take this attitude.
As we mature, we experience setbacks and develop fears about rejection and shame about not being enough. Even those who appear confident have their pockets of fear.
What to do when you don’t quite believe you can find true love? For whatever reason. The reason is not the main issue. The main issue is your fear of being not good enough in some form or fashion.
The real you, your essential self, IS good enough. Now, you might have to develop some life skills to be successful, but that’s just a task.
Bridging the Gap between fear and confidence is a challenge we all have to face in our lives. Find a mentor, get a coach, take a class. Build your life skills, or update what you know.
Go with a beginner’s mind, not with a closed adult mind. This hard to do because we hold on tight to what we know because we feel secure. The funny thing is that times change and if we don’t we are the ones who get left behind in life and in love.
Begin bridging the gaps you feel in your life (where you are unhappy). Start small and work up. Don’t do them all at once.
And, if you do not believe in yourself right now, borrow my faith in you. I know that within the essence of your true self, you have the answers you are searching for. You just have to surrender into the gap and freefall believing that you can fly. And you can. You can fly through life as the eagle - majestic, proud, mating for life and building a permanent nest for your family.
Believing without action is not enough. But without beliveing, successful action is not sustainable.
Discover what makes your heart sing. Then, believe in that. Act on that.
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