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The Nature of Love
By Coach Colleen | January 9, 2009
Hello,
Here is a line from a book I received as a gift.
It is not the nature of love to force a relationship but it is the nature of love to open the way.
Wow, this says a lot about how many women are in relationship because we were taught to be. Many of us, and I’ve been guilty of this many times; try to ‘make it work.’ We women have been taught since birth to put our emotions aside to keep relationships going.
If you think about it, this type of behavior is a type of coercion where we are forcing a round peg in a square hole. The result is unhappiness for you and recognized or unrecognized unhappiness for your partner. No wonder divorce rates are so high and men (and women) have affairs.
When you are trying to decide if he “Is the One,” having to force yourself is a big red flag. Stop, look and listen to your inner self. You are smart and know the answer. The question is are you willing to trust yourself to know the answer.
Coach Colleen
The True Love Coach
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