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True love’s gonna be like cherry blossums in the spring - NOT
By Coach Colleen | March 7, 2007
It’s important for us to have our own irresistible definition of true love. For some, it might be like the riotous unfoldment of pink that comes with the ornamental cherry trees blossuning in Spring in Seattle. They are very beautiful. But, sometimes beauty comes at too high a price.
That’s what happens to me. Yesterday, I was driving home with the windows open. I almost had to pull off the road I was sneezing so hard and so much. It was the pollen released by those beautiful pink flowers. I love and bless them, but I rolled up my windows and took pollen medication.
My true love does not include any irritants to my system. My irresistible definition of true love includes the softness and comfort of a cuddly puppy.
Think back on a past relationship that didn’t work out, what were some of the irritants? One that immediately comes to my mind is being less than honest which could be represented by a half closed window. I’ll only tell you half the truth.
Knowing what you don’t want is as important as know what you do want.
Coach Colleen
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Topics: Love |
September 5th, 2008 at 8:49 pm
Jealousy. Jealousy can be one of the most pernicious irritants of all. Jealousy isn’t at all about love — it’s about fear, the fear of loss, real or imagined. A pathologically jealous mate will clip our wings and cause us to live in a state of nervous agitation, since almost anyone or anything can be perceived as a threat.
Even the common, everyday type of jealousy can get on our nerves, if our mates constantly monitior our whereabouts.
True love means honoring the fact that we don’t own our mates nor do they own us. Real love allows us to be in a committed relationship, and yet allows us room to stand on our own two feet.
Cind Sansone-Braff, author of “Grant Me a Higher Love: How to Go from the Relationship from Hell to One that’s Heaven Sent by Scaling The Ladder of Love.”
September 8th, 2008 at 9:35 pm
Cind,
I totally agree that true love is not about smothering our partners. True love is about bringing out the best in each other. Letting each other soar with respect and admiration.