Should I Divorce? I re-listened to the song of my own heart
By Coach Colleen | February 25, 2009
Hi,
I realized that in my relationship, I’ve set up patterns. I got stuck in a rut.
I needed a change! I could leave my partner of 10 years or celebrate our 10 year anniversary. Hmmmm….
To myself I said… Aftern 10 years maybe it’s time to look a-new at our relationship - discard patterns that aren’t working and create new loving memories.
To myself I said… Colleen, use your own system and discover together what you want in the next 10 years.
We are going to the Big Island of Hawaii for our 10 year anniversary. We have looked at what we want to discard and are building what we want in this next stage of our long-term relationship.
By the way, this is a challenge experienced in all long-term love relationships. It doesn’t mean we chose poorly. It means we all experience repatterning and rut building in every part of our lives.
I’m relistening to the song of my heart - the song that defined love as a mango which is my symbol for a adventerous tropical island vacation.
See you there.
Coach Colleen
In total true love, 10 years after discovering the secret to finding the one.
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Find true love: stop the SOS
By Coach Colleen | February 23, 2009
Hi
Have you ever heard of this definition of insanity?
Doing the same old thing over and over and expecting the same results.
SOS = same old stuff
Stop doing it. Do something new. Get out of your mental habits that lead to physical habits which lead to patterns of living. And, how are those patterns of living working for you?
Get a new concept of yourself, get a new thought pattern, develop new ways of interacting and being in the world… and, yes, find true love.
Coach Colleen
Release the old and find the real you with the only tool you need - the Total True Love system.
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YES! Man … Leads to True Love
By Coach Colleen | February 20, 2009
Hello,
Last night I saw the movie YES! staring Jim Carrie. It was laugh out loud movie. It had also a bait and switch message.
Have you ever been to a rah! rah! motivational seminar. The ones with multi-media shows, energy that is over the top, upbeat buying-inducing music. Then the speaker whips the crowd into a frenzy, gets endorphins surging through you blood stream, you are higher than high. The next day you wonder how you could have possibly purchased a $10,000 self-help, change my life starting right now program.
If you’ve been to one of these events, you are going to love YES!.
The key that is givin in that movie that you may not realize is ever so true is that your consciousness is behind your life. According to the beginning of the movie, the stimulus for changing your consciousness and start LIVING lies outside of yourself. He made a covenant with the Speaker to always say YES! In this case, everyone else knows what is best for you. All you have to do is say yes! And, if you say no ‘the wrath of the Universe’ will descend upon you.
Remember that concept - you get what you believe? Well, in the movie, Jim Carrie believed and ever time he said no the wrath of the Universe descended upon him. So, he started saying Yes to everthing even when he really wanted to say NO!
This is how most people experience love relationships. They say YES even though something inside of them is questioning. I’ve said yes more than one time because I wanted so much to be loved. I wanted so much not to be alone.
The key is being discreminating about your YESes. Saying yes to doing new and exciting things expands your horizons. Saying yes to marrying the wrong someone causes and implosion and depression. The question is how do you know if this person is Mr. or Mrs. Right?
How do you know?
You discover your irresistible definition of true love ™. Once you do this, your true love and you will find each other.
Yes Jim Carrie found his irresistible definition of true love and his true love by saying no to his past.
The bait and switch of the movies is that JC discovered that he had to say Yes to himself and that that answer was within himself - NOT outside of himself.
What do you think JC’s irresistible definiton of true love is? Be wild and imaginative in your ideas.
Please share them with all of us.
Coach Colleen
Find true love … by finding yourself and your irresistible definition of true love
- a 5-step process to living happier ever after.
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Dating Advice: Where to go on a budget!
By Coach Colleen | February 19, 2009
Hi There,
Are you one of the millions cutting back on spending?
So, if you are, where can you go on a nice, fun date and not spend a ton of money?
Here are some cool ideas…
1. This one is age-dependent. If you are in your late 40’s or beyond, go get a coffee and sit in the library lobby of a University. Or if you’re younger, go to where you might see older people hang out - bingo at a senior center is popular in my neighborhood.
2. Many communities have free art walks during the week.
3. Use a two for one dinner coupon. Yes, use it. Not on the first date, but after that yes. One way to introduce it is to convert the savings to an hourly wage. If you save $18 on one dinner and you are there for an hour for easy math, then between the two of you you each earned $9 an hour for having dinner.
4. Sightseeing on public transportation.
5. Go to a coffee shop that has a fireplace and cushy chairs. Order just one latte and refill it with drip coffee.
I’d love to hear your ideas for inexpensive, fun date.
Coach Colleen
Find True Love by Finding Yourself First - Total True Love Self-Discovery System.
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Happiness - Where Does It Come From?
By Coach Colleen | February 18, 2009
Hi There,
This is a great quote from a little book - This Thing Called You.
Permanent happiness comes from a quiet contentment and an inner sense of certaintly which cannot be shaken by outside conditions, whether good or ill.
How to get this quiet contentment and inner peace?
These days, I really need an icon to hold in my mind and my heart that roots me to my inner true self. My icon, my metaphor, is an oak tree.
An oak tree has solid, deep, strong roots. Yet, it’s limbs reach for the sky. It is nourished without doing anything and it gives back by changing carbon dioxide to oxygen. It feed squirrels, houses birds, and shades people.
It graciously gives and takes and grows all by being itself. That sounds really good to me these days.
I’m as prosperous as an oak tree, as giving as an oak tree, as solid and secure as an oak tree - all leading to that sense of inner contentment and peace.
What’s your icon for happiness?
Coach Colleen
Find your icon for true love and find true love using the total true love system - a consciousness building tool for finding true love within yourself and in the world.
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The Secret to Finding True Love…
By Coach Colleen | February 17, 2009
Hello,
Last night I listened to several people talk about using treasure mapping to find their true love. Treasure mapping is where you cut pictures out of magazines about what you want to manifest in your life and paste them on a poster board.
Treasure mapping is a great fun and I heard behind what they were saying. Each person who talked spoke of being on a inner journey. Somewhere along that journey usually close to the beginning they did a treasure map. And, and, their journey continued. The treasure map they started was a way to put roots to their inner discoveries about themselves.
They were on what some would call a transformative spiritual journey. Or you could call it a self-awareness journey.
What I do know is that the secret to finding true love in the world is to take one of those inward spiritual journeys. Your goal is not to find your soulmate but to discover whay your soul, your inner authority, your personal authority, your essential self KNOWS true love to be — for you. I call this your irresistible definition of true love.
Once you KNOW your irresistible definition of true love, you will find true love within yourself and in the world. Find True Love… Find Yourself First.
Coach Colleen
Find true love… by finding yourself first with the Total True Love System
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How to Measure Love - By Living It! Happy Valentine’s Day
By Coach Colleen | February 14, 2009
Hello,
I saw this in an email and it was so wonderful, I had to pass it along as my valentine to you.
Happy Valentine’s Day,
Coach Colleen
Find true love… by finding yourself first with the Total True Love System
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Find True Love: The Secret is in a Moonbeam!
By Coach Colleen | February 9, 2009
Hello,
I want you to imagine holding a moonbeam in your hand.
What would a moonbeam feel like?
Here’s my first take on that feeling sensation
A warm radiance
- A penetrating energy that glows
- An excitement that tickles my toes
- Ever encompassing, surrounding, penetrating
- Inside and outside my fingers and palms, all at the same time
- No beginning or ending, just there
Imagine having that feeling in your true love relationship.
You and your true love would generate an energetic warmth that penetrates down to your toes.
Together you two present a glow that has no boundaries between you.
You each are your own person with your own personality, values, dreams, and goals represented by your fingers and palms. And, there is no beginning or end to your relationship. It is because you are in a true love relationship that you can rest is its being there.
What would a moonbeam feel like in your hands?
Think on this for a day and discover how you feel the next time you see the luminous energy radiating from our moon.
One more thing.
As you look at that radiance, know in your heart of hearts that your true love is looking at that same moon.
Experiencing in your mind, your heart, your toes that moonbeam feeling is part of your roadmap to finding your true love.
Coach Colleen
The power within
The Total True Love System a guide for implementing the secret to find your true love.
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First Love
By Coach Colleen | February 7, 2009
Hello,
You never forget your first love. Or did you?
Mine was hmmm….
Mine was Mikie - my dog.
From Mikie, I learned unconditional love, loyalty and heartbreak when he was struck by a car.
Who was your first love? What did you learn?
Coach Colleen
Find True Love … by finding yourself first
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The Masters Gathering: Mary Morrissey, my personal favorite
By Coach Colleen | February 4, 2009
Time Critical — There is a free teleconference this moring starting at noon eastern time. The cast of experts is astounding. Here’s more information on how to join this LIVE gathering and get up close and personal with a panel of masters from “The Secret” then you have to make haste and…
Secure your spot NOW on the call at www.themastersgathering.com
My personal favorite in this group is Mary Morrissey. As I’ve followed her over the years, she has walked through fire with an integrity and grace that is little seen these days.
If you have a chance to see her in person, do not hesitate. A 5-foot powerhouse of connection to an inner place of self-awakening.
Enjoy the call. If you missed it, my guess is that you can sign up and they will send you a link to a recorderd version.
Coach Colleen
5-Steps to Finding True Love using the Law of Attraction.
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